Finally, you are together, you have defeated fear and put all on one card. This is great, we still feel butterflies in my stomach and creeps when he is next. How could you ever be together? After you created it for yourself! Increasingly recognize that, as you are with him and how well he is great. Ideal! Generally you don't fight with each other. Yeah, this is beautiful until the problems start to appear.

At the beginning it will be small, but annoying things that you will be able to explain themselves. Over time, these things will be more and more, and one day, as the volcano explodes, causing huge losses in your relationship.

How do I avoid this? How simple ways you can develop certain reflexes that will allow the healthier fall?

Here are some tips:

Clearly define the rules – remember not to fight, just saying exactly and fully what you mean and what you expect from the beloved. Remember not to be too much pushing, because the guys in the world just don't catch, and cause even more confusion. If the rules are clear and transparent to you later will be easier to mix up and discuss.

Consequences - not necessarily. My dear, well we know that "woman is variable, so it can be used very well here. But without exaggeration! Do not change your opinion every 5 minutes! If you have a conclusion that what you said moments ago, become the objective (or he gives you to understand it clearly), do not wait, only to immediately communicate boyfriend.

Consequences - mandatory! And especially when they come into the game, previously set rules! You can not afford to violations, because it undermines the sense of their existence. Of course, everything from common sense, you do not have to be an angle, or a judge!

The talks - that is what is your relationship like most. Talk about your feelings as you feel pain in his behavior, and vice versa. You are not for you to hurt each other, and neither he nor you do not want bloodshed. The beginnings are difficult, because is not easy to open, but trust and a mutual understanding will help you. Of course, your guy will have a resistance against the already-constructed ... because you have to be for him indulgently exceptionally (only do not let yourself go to your head!), Hear and do not interrupt. Such discussions will surely bring you to yourself!

Argument - with a well-made rules and frequent conversations, they will be very sporadic. Then you will not have to be hugged from time to time? Such exchange of opinion and emotion is the image of your different characters. It is important that as soon as you start a dialogue about falling emotions. It is not important who is stretching out his hand first, which will depend on the same.

I am not saying that it will be easy, because, in fact, being with another man close to the hard work. However, the number of cases referred to in this article mentioned, will allow you to build a solid relationship, without any major sacrifices.